I love my friends to death but sometimes they dont get the words "leave me alone" or "leave it alone, its my problem not yours". They dont understand that I dont want them to get involved because I can handle the situation myself. Im a big girl, I know how to stand up for myself. And im not scared to. People may think they intimidate me but just wait till one of these days and someone says the wrong thing at the wrong time and I just freak out on them. Like this guy called me fat on Tuesday, im over it, but are my friends? Nope. and all they do is makes the situation worse.